Why Doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me anymore?

Im a guy and if you are putting a lot effort in this i only have one thing to say: he must be gay

I thought I was the only one with this issue, but it seems like ALOT of us are, in many different ways. I am shocked at how intense your situations are compared to mine.
My boyfriend and I have only been dating for about 5 months. And we always had sex once or twice a week due to our busy schedules, and that made me very happy.
But lately this month, it has been going downhill. He hasn't been initiating it at all and I don't dare to try and start it because I don't want him to reject the offer. So I wait and just hope that he wants to have sex again. I don't know what's wrong. I asked him if he was seeing someone else, but he said that was stupid to ask. And I find myself attractive, I model in Portland. But It feels like I don't turn him on. And now it's like he wants to spend time with his male friend "Josh" all the time. Even when I ask if I could stay the night on some nights, he had said "I want to go party with Josh".
It feels like Josh has been making my boyfriend happy more than I have been doing. What's the point of us being together? We hardly see each other, don't talk much, just hold hands, kiss and call each other sweet names.
I don't know what to do. I figure I just do my own thing, find what makes me happy and leave him alone because of all the disappointment he has been giving me. I like some advice please, even if this one may be obvious. But love is kind of blinding....
Thank you.

i'm having the same freaking problem...we've been together for two and a half years and i love him to death and i have no idea what to do... he used to be SO interested in me and he never believes me when i tell him how long it's been since we've even kissed or held hands, it seems like he just doesn't want to touch me at all and i feel gross... it hurts a lot and i'm so confused and it just feels like we're friends now, not a couple and i've tried talking to him about it and he says he's just stressed but he's never too stressed to do anything else... i don't know what to do

i'm having the same freaking problem...we've been together for two and a half years and i love him to death and i have no idea what to do... he used to be SO interested in me and he never believes me when i tell him how long it's been since we've even kissed or held hands, it seems like he just doesn't want to touch me at all and i feel gross... it hurts a lot and i'm so confused and it just feels like we're friends now, not a couple and i've tried talking to him about it and he says he's just stressed but he's never too stressed to do anything else... i don't know what to do

Should have just waited until marriage. it would have been better for both of you or extremely better for someone else if you break up. especially if you end up with someone else and he is a virgin then he really wont like that.

Hubby works overseas, comes home for a few weeks and leaves again for a few weeks, in the last two years there has been weddings, selling of a house purchasing another, grandbaby, two kids in college, my youngest had some trouble that was really stressful but we got through it. During the last two years we havent had sex at all, we are only 49 and been together 28 years. He has a stressful job and working in a third world country is hard. The other day I tired to start something and in the middle of it all he lost all interest and said he had a hard time keeping it going. Then when I asked him what happened and if he was concerned he said "No, He is never home ayway so what is the big deal.".. Help what is going on?

I'm on the same boat. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, too. Our sex life? Completely non-existent at this point and honestly, it's really starting to irritate me. Before, he couldn't go a week without wanting to touch me and have sex. He just gets off watching porn on his old laptop (he doesn't know I've gone through it's history). So, now I'm vowing to keep my sexy flirting and sensual kisses down to a complete minimum. And when (a huge WHEN) he decides he finally wants to have sex, I'm going to use all of his excuses. "I'm tired" and "I have to work tomorrow." Even if I'm not or don't have to work. This is my payback for him choosing porn over me. I've asked him before and he always says he doesn't want it to get old too fast. Funny thing is, we hardly had sex before. It was a few times a week and I was more than content, but now that it's changed..I'm not very satisfied and I find myself being more irriated with him than usual. He has started working at a job that tires him out, but even on his days off, all he wants to do is drink until the early morning and then go straight to bed when before he'd be begging to get me out of my pants. !@$@#%^$%$#@!#$ It's war though, he's going to be pretty upset when he learns getting in my pants won't be so easy anymore :)

Dear Sir/madam
I m enjoying sex from last few days . i dont know why my sperms use to come out soon

A guy perspective ( a guy that experienced rejection from girlfriend )
No disrespect but reading you ladies make me feel that most of you are control freak . It is not about sharing but getting what you want. Controlling your men desire and stuff... so sad.
Most of you are just self centered person.
Oh he should take me , beg me to have sex , oh he should do this do that . Please get off your mind all these preconceived ideas about how men should act and communicate with your men. And while he is the one asking don't make stupid excuses to blow him off. Payback is a b*tch
Have you ever thought about what YOU should do ?
Mostly you think that you are without reproach and he makes me sick sometimes to hear ladies complaining (sorry if i am a bit harsh).
Some of you even giving advice such as oh it is his problem don't worry about that and act like nothing happened ... !!! You are in a love relation talk to your man and stop being self focused...
If you analyze very well your behavior in the bed previously to the crisis , i am sure you will find some hints about what make him like that (for the cases where stress cannot be an excuse and obviously cheating...)
And also don't think like men like begging to have sex ok?
Because it makes us feel as bad as you ladies are feeling right now.

PS: Not an English native speaker so be indulgent.