I'm on the same boat. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, too. Our sex life? Completely non-existent at this point and honestly, it's really starting to irritate me. Before, he couldn't go a week without wanting to touch me and have sex. He just gets off watching porn on his old laptop (he doesn't know I've gone through it's history). So, now I'm vowing to keep my sexy flirting and sensual kisses down to a complete minimum. And when (a huge WHEN) he decides he finally wants to have sex, I'm going to use all of his excuses. "I'm tired" and "I have to work tomorrow." Even if I'm not or don't have to work. This is my payback for him choosing porn over me. I've asked him before and he always says he doesn't want it to get old too fast. Funny thing is, we hardly had sex before. It was a few times a week and I was more than content, but now that it's changed..I'm not very satisfied and I find myself being more irriated with him than usual. He has started working at a job that tires him out, but even on his days off, all he wants to do is drink until the early morning and then go straight to bed when before he'd be begging to get me out of my pants. !@$@#%^$%$#@!#$ It's war though, he's going to be pretty upset when he learns getting in my pants won't be so easy anymore :)
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I'm on the same boat. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, too. Our sex life? Completely non-existent at this point and honestly, it's really starting to irritate me. Before, he couldn't go a week without wanting to touch me and have sex. He just gets off watching porn on his old laptop (he doesn't know I've gone through it's history). So, now I'm vowing to keep my sexy flirting and sensual kisses down to a complete minimum. And when (a huge WHEN) he decides he finally wants to have sex, I'm going to use all of his excuses. "I'm tired" and "I have to work tomorrow." Even if I'm not or don't have to work. This is my payback for him choosing porn over me. I've asked him before and he always says he doesn't want it to get old too fast. Funny thing is, we hardly had sex before. It was a few times a week and I was more than content, but now that it's changed..I'm not very satisfied and I find myself being more irriated with him than usual. He has started working at a job that tires him out, but even on his days off, all he wants to do is drink until the early morning and then go straight to bed when before he'd be begging to get me out of my pants. !@$@#%^$%$#@!#$ It's war though, he's going to be pretty upset when he learns getting in my pants won't be so easy anymore :)
July 13, 2011 - 8:21amThis Comment
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