I thought I was the only one with this issue, but it seems like ALOT of us are, in many different ways. I am shocked at how intense your situations are compared to mine.
My boyfriend and I have only been dating for about 5 months. And we always had sex once or twice a week due to our busy schedules, and that made me very happy.
But lately this month, it has been going downhill. He hasn't been initiating it at all and I don't dare to try and start it because I don't want him to reject the offer. So I wait and just hope that he wants to have sex again. I don't know what's wrong. I asked him if he was seeing someone else, but he said that was stupid to ask. And I find myself attractive, I model in Portland. But It feels like I don't turn him on. And now it's like he wants to spend time with his male friend "Josh" all the time. Even when I ask if I could stay the night on some nights, he had said "I want to go party with Josh".
It feels like Josh has been making my boyfriend happy more than I have been doing. What's the point of us being together? We hardly see each other, don't talk much, just hold hands, kiss and call each other sweet names.
I don't know what to do. I figure I just do my own thing, find what makes me happy and leave him alone because of all the disappointment he has been giving me. I like some advice please, even if this one may be obvious. But love is kind of blinding....
Thank you.
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I thought I was the only one with this issue, but it seems like ALOT of us are, in many different ways. I am shocked at how intense your situations are compared to mine.
July 29, 2011 - 12:36pmMy boyfriend and I have only been dating for about 5 months. And we always had sex once or twice a week due to our busy schedules, and that made me very happy.
But lately this month, it has been going downhill. He hasn't been initiating it at all and I don't dare to try and start it because I don't want him to reject the offer. So I wait and just hope that he wants to have sex again. I don't know what's wrong. I asked him if he was seeing someone else, but he said that was stupid to ask. And I find myself attractive, I model in Portland. But It feels like I don't turn him on. And now it's like he wants to spend time with his male friend "Josh" all the time. Even when I ask if I could stay the night on some nights, he had said "I want to go party with Josh".
It feels like Josh has been making my boyfriend happy more than I have been doing. What's the point of us being together? We hardly see each other, don't talk much, just hold hands, kiss and call each other sweet names.
I don't know what to do. I figure I just do my own thing, find what makes me happy and leave him alone because of all the disappointment he has been giving me. I like some advice please, even if this one may be obvious. But love is kind of blinding....
Thank you.
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