I have never reach orgasm during penetrative sex , I Can during oral sex . Its fraustrating bcos after oral sex i go dry really quickly and it just becomes a painful workout . I also sufer frequently from virgina herpes are they related?

cant reach orgasm during sex but i can during oral sex we always have oral sex before penetration sex, after i get an orgasm during oral sex i become dry and it start to be a painful and am sore aftewards .we tried having penetrativ sex first but afterwards am too sore and not sensitive so dont have am orgasm at all .My husband tries very hard and keeps going but it just becomes more painful for me and he is also fraustrated ,i suffer frequently from herpes dont know if they are related. I dont take any medication or birth control pills and am 31 years old.

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I have a similar issue with reaching an orgasm during sex so what i find helps increase pleasure during penetration is to self stimulate my clit during sex. not all positions allow for a free hand so find one that works and enjoy!

January 22, 2009 - 8:12am

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