I'm 14 and a sorda had sex with my step-brother. I know its wierd but plz ignore that I'm just stating the facts. Anyways we were playing around and he was rubbing his penis on my vagina, and i think it became erect, so he might have pre-cummed. His penis wasn't inside me at all, it was just touching my vagina, and it was more towards anal. Is it possible I could be pregnant(I really really hope not)???
PLZZ ANSWER ASAP, i need 2 know very very soon,, also is there a way that i can "get rid" of the baby well egg, without my parents finding out and before they even do if I am??
Thanks ahead of time, THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT 2 ME!
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Ok, and I will wait a few more years, thanks for the helpful tips. :)
October 14, 2010 - 3:25pmThis Comment
Thank you for the response Allison, that was very helpful. My step-brother is a year younger than me. His penis was erect while it was touching me, but there was no penetration. I don't have access to condoms, I wouldn't want my parents to find out, there not the type of parents that would understand. But, I'm never doing it again anyways, it causes way to much stress. If I ever was to have sex is there a way that I could get condoms without my parents knowing?(I definatley don't plan on it, but just in case)
October 14, 2010 - 12:35pmThis Comment
Yes, you can definitely get condoms without your parents knowing, and its a great thing you are asking. Condoms are not "evil", but I understand your parents not wanting you to be sexually active. Good for you to protect yourself just-in-case, but hopefully you will wait a few more years, right?! :-) (Give boys a chance to mature..ha ha!).
Places to get condoms:
- Any drugstore, grocery store, gas station. If you have a neighborhood store you can walk to, just get them off the shelf and pay for them at the counter. No one will ask questions, and it's still embarrassing no matter if you are a teenager or older adult!
- Condomania (http://secure.condomania.com/Condoms/ is a reputable online condom store (universities use this company for their bulk supplies in the student health center), and they have discreet shipping policies: "All orders are sent in discreet plain brown envelopes or boxes. The "Condomania" name will not appear on the outside of your package". If you are able to check the mailbox (make sure you have this shipped through U.S. mail and not FedEx, who knocks on your door), this could be a good option, or have it mailed to a friend's house if their parents don't open mail.
- Planned Parenthood provides free condoms, depending on your location. You can call them and ask!
- Your doctor's office. You can also call your doctor, and ask if you are able to get condoms from them without your parents knowing, but you may need to be older? I'm not sure.
- Your school nurse. I know high school nurses have condoms available, not sure if your school does or not?
It's always the best policy to talk with your parents about your curiosity regarding boys and relationships (not necessarily sex), as they may be cooler than you think!
October 14, 2010 - 1:08pmThis Comment
Hi,
I have to say...it is difficult "just" sticking to the facts with your question!
Here's the information:
1. If there was absolutely, positively no penetration with his penis inside your vagina, then the risk of pregnancy would be very, very slight.
2. You must know if he had an erection or not...it's not difficult to distinguish between an erect and flaccid penis..they are quite different! If he had an erection and DID NOT ejaculate on/near/beside/inside your vagina, your risk of pregnancy would be almost zero.
3. If he "pre-cummed", meaning ejaculated, there would be a risk of pregnancy if it was near your vagina. "Pre-cum" is actually NOT ejaculation. "Pre-cum" happens the moment a penis becomes erect, and "pre-ejaculatory fluid" comes up to the tip of the penis in a few drops. This "pre-cum" may/may not contain sperm. If a boy becomes excited and has an orgasm, this is called ejaculation. Ejaculation does contain sperm, and sperm can travel to your fallopian tubes through your vagina. You need to have sex for this to happen, or his penis needs to be on/near your vagina while ejaculating for a risk of pregnancy.
You have not started your period yet, but it could begin at any time. There is a chance of pregnancy (if you have sexual intercourse) if you ovulate, and then have a period two weeks later.
Can you tell us how old your step-brother is? I'm really concerned that he may be older, and your use of language ("sorda had sex") tells me that you are probably not emotionally ready to be experimenting this far physically. A step-brother is also a person whom you should not be experimenting with, as you are so afraid of a pregnancy without having sex, and already asking how to get rid of a fertilized egg?! Please have ANY BOY who has his penis beside your vagina WEAR A CONDOM if he is going to get close to your naked body! If you are choosing to do adult behaviors, you need to choose adult protection, too. Condoms are essential to prevent pregnancy.
If your parents can not know about your being physically intimate with your step-brother, please carefully think about this. It is fine to be curious about bodies, and fine to talk with him about stuff, but he could get into a lot of trouble (especially if he is over 18 years old), and I would want you to have a healthy relationship with a boy that you can be happy and excited to talk with your parents about. Being afraid of pregnancy already at 14 years of age, and not choosing to protect your body with a condom, can lead to a pregnancy at an early age. If this is absolutely not possible for you to be pregnant (I hope it's not), you will need to change your choices. Your choices now can lead to a pregnancy, and it happens to so many girls, unfortunately. You have the power to choose to use a condom, choose the right boy, and choose other means to express yourself without creating so much stress and worry! :)
October 12, 2010 - 8:29pmThis Comment
Oh, yeah I also still haven't started my period, so does that make a difference?
October 12, 2010 - 5:51pmThis Comment