Why Doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me anymore?

Hello everyone, I don't know what to say. I thought I was the only one with this problem. I met my boyfriend on December, everything happened so fast and we moved together on February.And since february until today June 5th we have been together (sexually speaking) four times. At the beginning our sexual life was fine, but when we moved together he just doesn't want to touch, sometimes not even kiss me. He tells me that he is tired, that he has headache, excuses and excuses.We have talked about the problem and he tells me he doesn't even think about that with all the work problems he has, he promise me that he is going to try, and we talk and talk and nothing happens here. I'm about to quit here and cheat too. This is the first time in my entire life that a guy does not want to have sex with me. I'm not bad looking and I understand all the women with the same problem. And I don't understand what it is, I have been thinking probably he is cheating ( but he doesn't go out that much) probably he is gay or just probably has a medical problem. Any advice out there??? I have red pretty much all the posts and is amazing what is happening here!!!! Good luck ladies and remember we deserve the best :)

yo matey do u think that we r all borin and we only do missonary position, u obviously dont have a clue ive tried most things wiv my bloke and still nothing my bf has been like it from day dot , do u no how upsettin and embarresing it is to tell sum 1 face to face, so yeah we do use a site, i even got him to get me sum out fits that he likes tried doin sum role play last nite well let me tell u he didnt like it, was a rite passion killer has put me rite off i felt a bit humiliated tbh and has put me off sex wiv him all together im sure he just wants a screen play doin end of his a freak even my bro thinks so so dont try blamin us women coz we wudnt b on here if we hadnt tried everything :-)

It means you suck in bed.. Flat out.. Sometimes guys that love their gf's get bored of the same old boring ass sex so they either cheat on you or jack off so much that he never gets in the mood for you.. I'm and guy and I know these things. If your on the internet asking random ass people about your problems your more than likely are indeed a boring person by nature. Look up new sex positions and look a little more slutty and show your cleavage..

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 mouths apart 3 and for some reason doesn't want to have sex he says its not me but

I am going through that also the love making dropped in half. Not sure why. It might be job stress also proformance thinking he is not good. My guy is wonderful he takes his time. But he got upset because I said something about him not desiring me as much as he did. Maybe this is something guys go through. I very open to try new positions with him. So it can not be he is bored.

I know he would not cheat on me we both had partners that cheated on each of us. I am hoping this blows over. So hang in there.

HI. im with my boyfirend 5 year and have a boy 2 years old.. but im not wanting to have sex with him ,, were not arruging or anyting i just dont no if i fancy him any more or these things happen. I do want to have sex and fancy other people and dream of other fella's i no please helpme i dont want to hurt any one and i dont want to on my own ,, but i dont want to be unhappy ether,, he's not a bad gay and i no he loves me ..

Wow....such great advice from so many strong empowered women. Tragically like all of you I am in the same situation. 2 yrs together, 27 & 34 (him) healthy everywhere else in our relationship, but the dwindling sex has been for almost 6 months.
After reading all of this, it seems like a lot of the posters are young. Mentally young and actually YOUNG. I mean the misspellings, improper grammar, and the "cheating posts" from men are gross misrepresentations of men as a whole.
However the thread has been very helpful. I know now that I need to move on, because nothing will change.
Personally I know he's not cheating on me, except for that HJ he told me about from the "massage" parlor while I was at the grocery store. I love him, but I will love again.
My requests for logical explanations are just coming off as "Nagging" requests for sex.
I get a nasty responses as if I were challenging his manhood whenever I feel unattractive and undesired and want REASONS for why he hides his erections from me or whacks when I leave the house for 20 mins.
Whatever, this is natural. Soulmates, true love....marriage....fairy tales I should have left long ago with all the rest of the SOCIAL LIE to keep humans "good".
However it hurts so much, because I love him and just like all girls, I WANT to be wanted by what I WANT, which is him.
I'm sure his dwindling libido has a lot to do with the fact that he's over-weight, an alcoholic, an ex ROID abuser, and probably just not interested in me, despite what he says.
I’m no dummy, I know that stuff’s not going to change. However I’ve put off my career to appease his desires, to try to reignite our passion, and to make this work. What a waste....it’s only now that the passion’s dead and the love is still lingering that I can almost see clearly enough to realize this is just like everything else: getting OLD.
Next relationship I’m in, as soon as the sex dwindles I’ll be OUT like shout.

If you only get ONE thing from this whole thread, it’s that there’s 1081 posts and 75% of them are similar stories, so leave. Look for NEW, better, happier, and from within. ALSO NEVER PUT OFF YOUR CAREER FOR A MAN! EVER!!!!!