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Actually, I caught him my first time, and he lied about everything. he confessed, said sorry, but, i hear him all the time, espcially in the mornings. He moans, but he denies it. When he could be taking his horny self out on me. I love sex, and i crave it, so i dont see why he is wanting to jerk off, when he has me.
Hes absolutly Lazy! Usually after work, he comes home, and we eat dinner, then usually watch a movie. usually we rent them, but he always falls asleep, we use to sit together on the couch, but he lays down in the other one and just passes out.
If we do have sex, its graved in my mind that, i, have to be on top. If hes horny, and we mess around (which is rare) ill try getting him on top, but of course hes strong and gets me on top, then im stuck there, he dont want to do new sex moves, nothing. Just that one move the entire time. I ask him to switch it up, and he says, next time, but he says next time every time i ask. so then again, im stuck on top. Hes just too lazy to do anything, I dont have a clue waht too do...
Alot of people would say join him. but its kinda hard, when he locks himself in the bathroom, and denies it, so he pretty much kicks me to the side, as though im nothing. What should i Do???
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I told my husband that is what I thought masterbation was, when this is no other option but apparently that is not the case for him and many other out there. I was deprived while apparently his fantasies and hand were much more appealing. I have to admit we women are/were clueless. I though male masturbation was like female masturbation which I did (had to do sadly). We don't have to fantasize. For me and I assume other women we get horny, feel uncomfortable and take care of that need. We concentrate on the feeling with no need to outside stimuli. When we orgasm it might be to our husbands or SO but I think rarely if ever to someone else. If fact I would find that a complete distraction. I read how a lot of men are turned down for sex regularly but I am reading also how many women are replaced for sex these days. It is painful in either case and it distracts from a marriage in a big way. As I told my husband the intimacy that comes with sex is an important factor in building closeness in a relationship. When the sex is gone so is the intimacy and the closeness being to evaporate after awhile and the distance begins to grow. That is what I've experienced. Men just don't seem to want to work on any of that or care. I would much rather never have been married, had my sexual needs taken care of as needed by someone, build a life for myself focusing on a interesting career rather than spent all these years taking care of house, home and him to now be left like this. I feel it has been a major waste of my time.
February 15, 2016 - 6:53amThis Comment
Well let's see everyone has problems me (married man).but this is easy .its time for you to get caught watching porn mastering you.if he does not participate in any fashion and just walks away he's gay or bie.so try porn with two men one women.
June 29, 2015 - 7:24pmThis Comment
He is telling another woman "friend" his sexual fantasies...no? I do not understand you. His side as to why he is engaging with another woman this way? Papostorous!! That is wrong irregardless of whatever you say.
March 31, 2015 - 9:55amThis Comment
My wife and I have been married for 8 years the reason why I jerk off to porn is because I have mostly lost interest in having sex with my wife for a few reasons. I known my reasons may sound shallow but it's honestly how I feel. We have talked about our sex life in the past of what we both want but, all of the things that I expressed that I want she will not do. My wife does not give blowjobs, does not shave or trim her vagina, does not douche or take a shower before sex, does not wear make up or dress sexy, does not wear purfume, she is not into trying new things, I would like her and I to watch a porn movie together to see what happens. And lastly I would like her to loose some weight because on the few times that we have sex and she rides me it hurts me. Of course if she ever decides to give blows jobs i would like it to be to completion. Does any of this sound unreasonable or too extreme ?
November 28, 2013 - 9:46amThis Comment
You are literally the biggest asshole I have heard of. Talk about mysogongy. Blowjobs are disgusting, to be honest, and it's likely because you have poor hygiene. Why don't you eat her out?
March 28, 2015 - 6:58pmSo then, since your sex life is so dull, maybe she's having an affair. After all, you sound like a total pervert who expects his wife to watch porn. It's uncomfortable for some women because who wants to watch strangers have sex? and who wants someone to have FAKE sex..maybe porn is giving you too high of expectations.
having you as a husband is enough to make your wife hate sex.
maybe she's too tired of doing your laundry, dishes, and picking up after you because you are a mommy's boy and learned early in life that women give you everything (ha ha)
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No his not the asshole he just wants new experiences she like he said won't even shower before sex and you try to insult him for his hygiene plus people are here asking for advice on how to get there partners to do new sexurally things for eachother or see if their love still finds them sexurally attractive so please don't come on this question just two insult someone who asked a honest question
May 6, 2015 - 3:55pmThis Comment
Maybe its because your ugly?
September 9, 2011 - 9:39pmThis Comment
Yeah, yeah, have you heard the saying who spits ups it falls right back on you, get a life and goes waste your stupid words somewhere else, seem little bored, hmmmmmm?
September 9, 2011 - 10:31pmThis Comment
Hello, I am a married women with five kids, me and my hubby have had our ups and downs in our relationship. Recently we get along real well but we hardly ever have sex. It roughly about once or twice a month. I was really hurt yesterday when I saw him jacking off in the shower when he could've invited me or have sex with me being it almost been a month. There are nights where I always try to hint that I want but he don't give, and there nights he wants and I get so sick of waiting by the time he asks I not in the mood. I love him dearly and we get along great bug our sex life is horrible. I caught him yesterday and after he saw me devastated he asked me Tl take a walk to talk, he said he felt bad and cried. He told me he felt the mood because I never offer or make the moves so he figured why ask. I told him I felt the same way that I always try to tell him. He said he felt he never had enough time for me and wants to look for another job. I feel like I not the wife I should be, what should I do?
August 19, 2011 - 11:38amThis Comment
Mindy,
November 8, 2010 - 2:28amLook inside for your answers, or scroll up and read your posts. You know how you feel. If it's truly intolerable, do something about it. If you really want to discuss it... ask if he'll set an appointment time to have a talk about your relationship. You might find he'll agree, and will come to the table with his own grievances concerning you as well, and a lot sooner than you might have expected. Just posing the question to set the appointment will usually bring about the conversation immediately. At lot of his reaction will be based upon your delivery. Scorn will get you nowhere... so put down the mask... be not afraid to show him your true heart, and entrust him with it if you so choose. Trust in your heart... and know that doing so will bring you the answers you need.
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