Hi yes we had a fight and a serious one but its more than a month now.my husband come to me for sex himself and friendship.he kises me during sex but suddenly he stop himself from it intentionlly and forcefully.why is he doing?

Hello Anon

Thank you for writing.

He may be punishing you by refusing to kiss you - knowing that is something you really like.

This seems to be far deeper than kissing. Whatever your fight was about, it doesn't seem to have been resolved and your husband seems angry. Talking things through may help - if not, seek marriage counseling.
Best,
Susan