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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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thank u very much
January 5, 2012 - 7:17amThis Comment
Please relax, you could not have become pregnant by that type of sexual activity.
During your upcoming appointment, mention your concern about possible pregnancy to your doctor. If your gynecologist suspects that you could be pregnant, a pelvic ultrasound and a blood pregnancy test can be done. These two tests will confirm a pregnancy.
Good Luck,
Maryann
January 5, 2012 - 6:36amThis Comment
Hi Maryann Gromisch RN, Thank you. I'm a bit enlightened.
I went to the doctor today. She asked if I ever had "sexual contact" well I said No. I never mentioned her about my "possible pregnancy". Now my conscience is haunting me. The truth is I don't even know if it's sexual contact because his penis was never inserted to mine. In fact, I was even on my shorts still after that sexual activity. (Just like what I've said yesterday..)
She prescribed me this medication : Duphaston 10mg # 10. 1 Tablet 2x daily for 5 days. And I started drinking it after the consultation.
It's just that, I am a second year nursing student. And based from what I've learned in our Maternal & Child and Anatomy & Physiology, Progesterone is like what the "mothers" need. It somewhat helps in maintaining the baby inside. But it is also the one the slugs off during menstruation. Is that right? I've researched this Duphaston and seems like it promotes pregnancy... though some OB also prescribes it as a medication to women with irregular menstruation, well.. am I taking the right drug? I'm a bit confused. Maybe because I've not told her about my suspicions for possible pregnancy? Hmm. About me & my boyfriend's sexual activity, are you like 100% sure that I cannot be pregnant with that?
Btw, the doctor also asked me to have a Transrectal Ultrasound. Hmm. What can you say about that?
I super trust you my dear mary ann. I'm still in college and I could not afford to get preggy! :(
January 6, 2012 - 2:58amThis Comment
Hi Maryann Gromisch RN, Thank you. I'm a bit enlightened.
I went to the doctor today. She asked if I ever had "sexual contact" well I said No. I never mentioned her about my "possible pregnancy". Now my conscience is haunting me. The truth is I don't even know if it's sexual contact because his penis was never inserted to mine. In fact, I was even on my shorts still after that sexual activity. (Just like what I've said yesterday..)
She prescribed me this medication : Duphaston 10mg # 10. 1 Tablet 2x daily for 5 days. And I started drinking it after the consultation.
It's just that, I am a second year nursing student. And based from what I've learned in our Maternal & Child and Anatomy & Physiology, Progesterone is like what the "mothers" need. It somewhat helps in maintaining the baby inside. But it is also the one the slugs off during menstruation. Is that right? I've researched this Duphaston and seems like it promotes pregnancy... though some OB also prescribes it as a medication to women with irregular menstruation, well.. am I taking the right drug? I'm a bit confused. Maybe because I've not told her about my suspicions for possible pregnancy? Hmm. About me & my boyfriend's sexual activity, are you like 100% sure that I cannot be pregnant with that?
Btw, the doctor also asked me to have a Transrectal Ultrasound. Hmm. What can you say about that?
I super trust you my dear mary ann. I'm still in college and I could not afford to get preggy! :(
January 6, 2012 - 2:57amThis Comment
Hi Maryann Gromisch RN, I am a bit scared right now. I had this sexual experience with my boyfriend this December 30, 2011. We also had another one last January 2, 2012. On the day of December 30, I got the chance to hold it. I'm pretty sure there's a fluid that was excreted thru his penis. He never inserted his penis around me. My shorts was even on. I even dried my hand I used to touch his penis at his back and shirt. But I can't remember if I washed my hands when I got home. But I can be assure that I never touched my vagina during the experience. It's just that, I'm a bit paranoid because I never had menstruation for 3 months now. My last menstruation was October. Yes, I have Irregular menstruation. I already had pelvic ultrasound a year ago and the doctor said it is normal. She said, I don't need to panic because I'm still 17 back then and I will need to worry about it if I am already 21. I'm planning to undergo Pelvic Examination once again to confirm about my irregularity in menstruation & also to check if I'm pregnant? I mean, If there's a fertilization that took place, it will show there, right? After all, it's the uterus & it's other neighbor body parts are what being check...
Thanks in advance!
January 5, 2012 - 5:54amThis Comment
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January 5, 2012 - 3:54amThis Comment
Unless you use some type of birth control, regularly and correctly, there is a potential for getting pregnant if you have sexual intercourse.
Why- because sperm is so tiny that you cannot see it. Because you can't see it, doesn't mean it isn't there. As long as a guy's penis enters your vagina or comes in contact with your outer genitals (labia), there is a chance that sperm is released and enters your body.
The exact time that one of your ovaries releases an egg is not known, usually it happens about 2 weeks before the start of your period.
When sperm meets an egg, conception happens and you are pregnant.
Maryann
January 2, 2012 - 6:36pmThis Comment
i am 17 and not a virgin, just a bit worried as i slept with this lad and didnt use anything but when he came his penis slipped out but it was still in my vagina, is it still possible to get pregnant this way when it was not ejaculated straight up my vagina? please help??
January 1, 2012 - 9:54amThis Comment
thanks
December 30, 2011 - 11:35amThis Comment
4 years and you still havent had sex? WTF are you doing?! get a condom, put it in your mouth roll it over his penis with your lips and tell him to get to it already!
December 29, 2011 - 6:52pmThis Comment