I am new to this group. I have been married for 13 years and I have a husband and two kids. I caught him sexting someone 2 years ago for three months. I still cant get passed that. So a year later I started having an occasional cigarette (1 a day for a stress reliever) here and there. Well he got very upset and said that if I didn't stop he would leave. He couldn't believe that I would tear the family apart from smoking. This is crazy to me because I felt him texting another girl was much worse. Our sex life is not good once a week if that because I just don't want to. I just don't know what to do I am at a loss! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!