There are many situations and occurrences in life that can test the strength of a family unit, including environmental factors, physical factors, mental factors, biological factors and social factors. It could be one of these factors, or a combination of two or more, that affects either one or two individuals within the family unit or the entire family unit as a whole; whatever it is that impacts the family, it can have a huge impact on the families overall mental health. Each individual will react to a high level of stress in their own way, but how they handle the stress can have a direct impact on the other members of their family.
When depression hits the family, everyone in the unit can be affected in a negative way. Millions of people throughout North America suffer from different types of depression; some of them suffer a lighter form of depression and with help they and their family are able to cope and work with it, while others suffer from more severe forms of depression that can cause a family unit to fall apart. When an individual develops depression, their family can often sense that something is off; that the individual is not quite the same person as they use to be, especially if the family is a tight-knit family. The signs might not be as obvious as soon for families that are not as close as others, but the signs soon become apparent in just about any family when a person comes down with deep depression. The other members in the family will react to the person’s depression in different ways to try and get that person out of their emotional rut, but family is not always able to help. Depending on the depression that the person has and how they choose to deal with it, the family could be adversely affected and the unit can fall apart. Rifts begin to grow into chasms, drawing each family member away from the unit they once knew. In too many cases, the person’s depression only becomes worse, especially if they choose to avoid help, self-medicate and then take out their frustrations on their family. It is unfortunate, but many family units that were once strong and close have fallen apart as a result of one or more family members becoming severely depressed.
There are many reasons why one or more members of a relatively happy family unit can become depressed, including stress, financial instability, a death in the immediate family and so on. Severe depression in relatively unhappy and dysfunctional families has a fairly obvious cause. Whatever the cause of the depression, a family does not have to be torn up over it. Even some families that think they are fine could possibly benefit greatly from a visit with a family therapist or counselor. It takes work to keep strong family ties within a unit, as well as to maintain trust, openness, and honesty; a family therapist or counselor can help a family to remain strong enough to weather through life’s many trials. It doesn’t always require a family to bring everyone into a family therapist’s office either. With online therapy, it is now possible for families to have sessions with an online family therapist in the comfort of their own home.
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Thank you for your message; it is great to know that there is help out there for families struggling with depression (reminding us that it is not just the individual coping with the condition; it affects the entire family).
To my knowledge, we have not had anyone in my immediate family who has been depressed, but it got me thinking about the impact of stress on the family. We all know how much stress can affect us and those around us, especially when not handled in a healthy manner. When either myself or my husband is stressed, we are more irritable, tired, not willing to compromise. Our toddler may get a bowl of rice and beans for dinner for the second night in a row, instead of some veggies; we may not eat healthy, either. The excess stress becomes a strain, as it takes a lot of energy to keep up with the day-to-day maintenance of bills, yard work, cleaning, going to school/work, not to mention social obligations...oh, and also having fun and relaxing!
I can not imagine one of my family members having a more serious, and possibly chronic, condition like depression...it could be absolutely devastating! I hope to hear from others how depression impacted their family.
June 8, 2008 - 11:28amThis Comment