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Worried Virgin help?

By Anonymous December 1, 2018 - 4:40pm
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Hi Im getting a little worried I need some ease so im suppose to get my period tommorrow which is my date or the day after and im starting to have paranoia the most ive done with my bf is give him an oral once and he rubbed my vagina with his hand no finger in then i would give him handjob but i would always be fully clothed and he would touch me first then i would give him handjob then weboth would clean our hands good with tissue then use wet ones wipes hand sanitizer I never had sex no penis ever on or in my vagina so im just paranoid like dried dead sperm on hands like he would touch my upper body after hand saniztizing hands or my butt then soon i would shower when i got home No risk right?

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Hello, Anon. Thank you for posting.

You cannot get pregnant from what you did. You said yourself you are a virgin. For all intents and purposes, there is a risk of pregnancy when a woman has unprotected sexual intercourse with ejaculation that enters the vagina.

Anon, did you have sex education at school? If not, it's a good idea to study on your own so you know how sex and the human body works. You can read books on the subject or search our EmpowHER site. This will eliminate a lot of stress than the unknown can cause.


December 1, 2018 - 7:24pm
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Anonymous (reply to Helena)

Hi, thank you my breasts feel tender and are hurting this happens to me usually when im about to get my period my period is sometimes early sometimes late right now my period is just two days late I also had a high fever this month so could it affect my cycle I keep having paranoia that somehow im pregnant when i know cant be.

December 5, 2018 - 3:12pm
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stress and illness can greatly impact a woman's cycle so keep this in mind. Your period will sort itself out in due time.


December 7, 2018 - 7:51pm
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