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Im 18 years old and I've never had sex. I'm afraid to because I am self-conscious about the way my vagina looks. The inner lips hang out and it is wrinkly and not 'aesthetically pleasing.' Any feedback will help!
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I'm a girl, & a PROUD virgin. We all worry about how we look to others, sometimes. But I get over it. It shouldn't matter. I'm saving myself for marriage. -- But whomever you lose your virginity to shouldn't be worried about what your vagina looks like. They should know YOU as a person.
July 15, 2010 - 4:21amThis Comment
Umm... so you feel better, I have the same problem with me, and I've read that it was actually normal. I'm pretty sure you could talk to you gynocoloegist about it or your doctor and talk about options on what to do about it.
November 5, 2009 - 10:23pmThis Comment
dont worry at all im 14 and have the same problem. im not planning of having sex yet but i just think about what will he say when he lookes at it or will he not like me.. i truely think i wont ever find anyone that will like me for who i am. i mean im not bad looking as in face but if they saw the private part then i dont kno wht i will do.. so i am scared but owell..
July 28, 2009 - 3:47pmThis Comment
Don't worry, just remember that the guy has a private area that varies from every one in size shape and texture guys dont really worry about how it looks especially if it is someone they care about. They will care if you make it known that you are insecure about it. It will be okay as long as you do it with the right person. I'm 16 and planning on losing my virginity to a friends guy who I've known for 2yesrs and trust
April 4, 2015 - 2:11amThis Comment
Hey lady beleive me i know the thinking of boys they don't wannna stare at your vigina just because it looks odd atleast i don't that way let me give a good advice if think you are bad and ugly then slowly and gradually you become bad and ugly never say that you are ugly and don't be that much self-conscious bcoz if you do so you will never find a life partner and besides this is natural mostly girls think the same way when they turn 18 what if same problem occurs with a male that he has a very lage or short stick then what it dosent mean that he don't have the rights for sex its just the same think broad when slecting a partner
July 6, 2009 - 2:36amThis Comment
Beleive me when men want sex they don't look on your private if thats what you are worrying about then forget it its just that when you want to have sex with someone you just don't look at his parts that how small or how big you just have if you do so you will never find a sex mate partner and exactly the same way men also thik i hope i helped you.
May 17, 2009 - 4:33pmThis Comment
I will say if you are virgin just wait for the right person to have sex and in this age of 18 mostly girls are very energetic and want to have sex if you talh about boys they like virgins but anyway go to docits better to get a second openion.
May 5, 2009 - 7:44amThis Comment
i will say guys wont dislike it... i personally likes it tat way. so dont worry.. have a great life .. dont go for premarital sex. its not worth it.
March 29, 2009 - 2:20pmThis Comment
haha - Anon - you got that right!
February 9, 2009 - 6:47pmThis Comment
I've never seen a "pretty vagina"....that's like an oxymoron! Flowers and birds are pretty, faces are pretty, puppies are pretty...lady's and men's parts are not so much!
February 9, 2009 - 6:37pmThis Comment