I appreciate your comment. I am definitely not doing it to make him stay. If a man doesn't want to be with me, then I don't want him to stay. I just have this guilt issue about him never having kids because of me. He always says he wants to marry me, and he wouldn't leave me without a fight. He is a great man, and I just wanted him to experience the most wonderful feeling in the world. He is an honest man, so you are probably right about trusting in his response to the issue. I guess the hang up here, is that he is just like me, and will suffer to spare anothers feelings. Its funny, when I originally had the procedure done, everyone asked what I would do if I got with a man that wanted kids. My response was...."If he doesn't like the fact that I can't have kids, then he isn't the man for me anyway." Now I am with this wonderful man, and my mind is all screwed up. He only said once that it might be nice to have one some day, but its not necessary. I think I just think to much.....lol. Oh well, if God wants me to have another child I will, if not, then it wasn't in the cards to begin with. Thanks for your advice, and good luck to all the women out there that want children, but are having trouble conceiving.

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