By quantumleap September 22, 2017 - 6:26am

i feel unhappy with my marriage and where I am in my life also. I am going to be 39 years old and my husband is very predictable and not spontaneous in any way. I wish he would express how he feels and isn't an alpha male if that makes sense? I am the one who wants to have a physical relationship whereas he is just happy going to bed with a book. I find it hard to be with someone so different from myself but he is a lovely good man.