Need to know how many women are out there who struggle the same or similar with care of a husband at mid age only.. he is 41 and i am 47. Its hard when sickness sabotages his hormones/libido etc. its like you lost part of the lively part of your love relationship. I need to keep things more lively and when he cant much it is difficult in many ways............. any HELP comments? or similar story/support?