Here I am. Came across this website this morning, after yet another argument with my husband. Husband is diagnosed with liver and kidney failure. We are both 42 and life has basically changed drastically for both of us. My husband doesn't seem to understand what this has done to me. I am frustrated, angry, hurt everyday and despite my efforts to contain myself, I often explode. Needless to say I came to crossroad last night, and the fact remains is that my husband is still selfish. We fought about me wanting to go into the guest room so that I could sleep, because as a caretaker you need rest in order to keep moving. I'm glad that I found this group so that I don't feel like I am alone, which I seem to engulf my thoughts into daily.