I am a 32 year old female who has extensive experience in all sorts of relationships. I am no expert but man can I shed some light on a lot of the subjects here on the site. First of all relationships aren't going to always be great times and great sex......there are going to be times when the going gets rough and if the feelings that you have for this person are true then you wont be coming to web sites like this one for help. We all have our own opinions as to what is going on and we all want to help you but truthfully we can't. We are simply going to drive you insane with our opinions. I don't know everything but what I do know is even at 32 I have been married twice and I have a 14 year old daughter. We are all going to make mistakes. We just need to sit back think and stay rational. Common sense. Watch the behavior patterns if your gut is telling you something by god you better listen. Our gut feelings are 98 percent correct. I hope this has helped some ppl..
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I so appreciate you writing. Your experiences are so valuable, and you're right, you have been through a lot at 32!
Many women come here because they don't have friends or family that they feel they can share with. Think of yourself at 16, 17, or 18, before you had the experiences you have now. I'm sure there were some uncertain times.
Older women are often in the middle of a relationship that started out going well but got off track somewhere along the line, and they want to just write it all out and see what someone else thinks. Many times, we find that the writing it all out is one of the most important things they do. It helps them express themselves and often gives them a clearer picture of what they are dealing with even before anyone else writes back.
And I think the most valuable thing women find when they come here is that they are not alone. Whether they are dealing with sexual issues, relationship troubles, health questions or family problems, it helps to find out that others understand, have been where you are and can say, "You can do it, too."
Learning to sit back and stay rational is HUGE. You are right. But it takes a while to learn that, yes?
I hope to see you around the site often. I hope you'll register and pick a screen name so we can recognize you when you contribute!June 25, 2010 - 8:38am