Hi, ended up on this women's site after looking up this subject, more specifically about wives leaving husband's with various health conditions. Mine is severe back, neck, hip, shoulder pain and sciatica due to arthritis. I'm 62 and vitals are all great! We're at the 40 year mark of marriage. She's not a compassionate wife by her own admission, and after many conversations gently appealing to her to try to have more, she now's says she's had enough of my emotional abuse and is considering divorce. I'm honestly a very easy going, considerate and thoughtful husband! My sister in laws have told me so! So, how do I know I'll find another woman? I'm still sexual, she's not, I still like to be physical, she avoids! I'm afraid of being alone, even tho perfectly capable if I need to be. Am I still attractive? Am I still gonna be good in the sack, and yes, with my chronic pain, I still push myself for sex because it's still so damn enjoyable! Will I have enough money to attract a younger woman? It's ben so long for all these things to happen and know...truly the great unknown for me! Any comments are appreciated and maybe it's not a total accident I ended up on a women's site!
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Hello Anon
Thank you for writing.
You may be jumping the gun as you haven't yet separated from your wife. Take your time. As to whether you can attract another woman - we can't say. We can't discuss your financial situation, we don't know it. Your financial situation, unless dire, shouldn't impact a new relationship but it sounds like you think money will attract a "younger" woman? I'm not sure what you are looking for in a new woman other than her youth and sex. I think these are questions you should be asking yourself rather than someone else. Self-reflection and mindful thinking about your situation sounds like a good idea.
June 3, 2019 - 4:00amBest,
Susan
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