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is there any risk?

By Anonymous July 25, 2019 - 9:41am
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Hi me and my bf were together yesterday. It was The first day of my period, he nevet touched my vagina i had pants on underwear pad everything we were sitting and he made me touch and play with his penis from inside his pants he used bathroom prior to this later. I never washed my hands or touched myself obviously cause i got period i gave him oral and he got done. he cleaned up everything himself and he washed hands with water. Later on I went home washed hands first thing then showered. I also brushed my teeth/tongue. I just wanna make sure, there isnt any risk right?

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Hello Anon

Thank you for writing!

Thanks for your post! Did you have sex ed at school? If not, it's a good idea to study on your own so you know how sex and the human body works. You can read books on this or search our own site. This will eliminate a lot of stress than the unknown can cause.
A woman cannot get pregnant unless she has unprotected sex (naked) with ejaculation. She would also have to be ovulating or be within five days of ovulation. Touching a penis cannot get anyone pregnant, and touching it while it's covered by pants certainly cannot.

So a pregnancy cannot occur from what you did.

When you said "he made me" touch and play with his penis - I hope you know you can say no to any kind of sexual contact at any time.


July 25, 2019 - 10:38am
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