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By Anonymous October 16, 2019 - 11:13am
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Hi my boyfriend and I were together today and its Day 16 for me I had period on oct 1 usually im 30-31 days so today what happened was he was fingering me first then he gave me oral down there and fingering again during this process he always had his sweatpant and boxers on and he got done inside his boxers and sweatpants during this activity. After he stopped fingering me and took off sweatpant boxers cleaned penis with that dirty boxer and put hand sanitizer on and laid down naked and i was lying down naked too we took a little nap then after that I gave him oral for like 3-5 mins or more he put his finger in my vagina he had put hand sanitizer on it previously and kept it in my vagina i gave him handjob and his semen was on his stomach/pelvic area i cleaned it with tissue and my hand then put my hand like back and it got dry he was still fingering me and rubbing my vagina after all that i put hand sanitizer on my hands wiped vagina several times with tissue because of wetness and wore my underwear and panty liner again. In the end i washed hands with soap before leaving and later on peed and washed vagina with water and wiped dry. My bf said he didnt have sperm on hands (since he got done in boxers/cleaned penis with boxer) he put hand sanitizer on his hands and fingered me again after a decent amount time is there any risk? I dont think there is? Right?

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HERWriter Guide

Hello Anon

We answered this question for you several days ago. From what you have said there is little to no risk. As long as there is no ejaculation on the inside or right outside your vagina there is no risk.
Please take the time to read more about sex ed so you know what you are doing.

October 16, 2019 - 1:29pm
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Anonymous (reply to SusanC)

Hi this happened today.. We didnt have sex he just fingered me and gave oral and as far as i know no semen went inside me or on my vagina i was just concerned he put hand sanitizer on his hands after touching sperm on boxers underwear cloth and let air the dry it after alot of time he fingered me so they should be dead by then.. I just wanted to confirm.. theres no risk right?

October 16, 2019 - 6:58pm
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

We don't guarantee our readers that they will or will not get pregnant.
But based on what you said, there should be little to no risk.

October 17, 2019 - 12:32pm
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