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Hi me and my bf were together first he gave me oral and started fingering me I also gave him oral then we started having sex he put on a condom but it wasnt going in me with that so he took it off and started useing pull out method after each pull out he went in bathroom to clean his penis and also wash it then we did it again after minutes also one time he used the condom and got done inside the condom while it was inside me then he took it out and i saw whitish stuff at the end of his penis like the part that is attached with the body he said it was from me.. but im paranoid also after everythinng we took a shower im like 11-12 days from my period and i have usually a 30-31 day cycle. What should I do he said I shouldn’t stress because he knows what he did but im a big overthinker i dont wanna go crazy i also took another shower when i got home
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Hello Anon
Thank you for writing.
Showering doesn't prevent pregnancy. You need to stop using the withdrawal method, it's not safe for people who are not used to being sexually active. Birth control must be used at all times. We can't know how high a risk there is for pregnancy, that's not something a website can really say. But as long as the condom didn't break and there was no unprotected ejaculation inside the body, then pregnancy can't occur. You will have to wait for your next period to know you're not pregnant.
August 13, 2019 - 7:20amBest,
Susan
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Hi its been like now 9 days since this event and there is 2-3 days till my period date. I feel normal as usual 100% however I have my period symptoms my breasts usually hurt before period and its hurting and right now I just wiped and I saw slight pinkish/ brownish discharge and with a little blood, Is my period about to start or is it implantation bleeding? Please help please..
August 21, 2019 - 6:53pmThis Comment
Hello Anon!
It sounds like your period is on it's way. It isn't even due yet so please don't worry for another few days. You're working yourself into worry because you're being too impatient. See what the next 3 days brings.
August 22, 2019 - 2:39pmBest,
Susan
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Should I take plan B. He told me I dont need to and also im on the 19th day on my cycle which is usually 30-31 days so im guessing ovulation passed already..?
August 13, 2019 - 8:52amThis Comment
Hi again!
Don't take advice from your boyfriend! He's not the one who risks getting pregnant! You need to make this decision.
August 13, 2019 - 10:05amThere is not much risk based on your dates but nobody can guarantee whether you will or will not get pregnant. It's up to you whether that is a risk you want to take but if you are going take Plan B, take it today and don't go back and forth on it as it needs to be taken asap.
Best,
Susan
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Thank you so much. I wont be able to go out today, Can I take it tommorrow?
August 13, 2019 - 11:13amThis Comment
Yes, but it may be slightly less effective.
August 13, 2019 - 12:47pmSusan
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