My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time yesterday. Before putting on the condom, he had to stroke his penis for a bit to get it fully erect. During sex, he fingered me a bit. I didn't think about this at the time, but I'm worried that he could have gotten pre-cum on his hands from putting on the condom, then that pre-cum could have gotten inside me. We know that you're supposed to discard condoms that you put on upside-down because of the possibility of pre-cum being on the tip of the condom. I've never seen anything saying that a guy shouldn't touch a girl after putting on a condom, but it seems to me like the same possibility of pre-cum could be a concern. I'm pretty worried about this now, and I would appreciate any answers!
Also, I've been on the pill for a bit and he used the pull-out method in addition to the condom, so we've taken other actions to be more safe.
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Hello Anon
Pre-ejaculate doesn't contain sperm if the male has urinated since his last ejaculation which is very likely the case. So pregnancy should not be a concern.
The birth control pill is 99+% effective when taken correctly so there's really no way to get pregnant even if you used no condom at all and there was full ejacultion inside your body.
November 11, 2019 - 3:04pmSusan
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