I am a 46 year old female, who has a problem having a orgasam as long as i can remember. i do have two kids. My last one is 4 years old so i have experience but, lately my body gets totally numb . I fantasize about situations,watch porno but i cant release. I guess if i was a guy i would have blue balls. What can I do. LOOKING FOR ANSWER
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In your case there could be a near situation of squirt but not happening
August 7, 2010 - 10:28amThis Comment
Hi,
August 3, 2010 - 2:06pmThis is definitely the "million dollar question", and there are as many possible answers or solutions as there are women who have difficulty reaching orgasm. It is a complex issue, and any number of possible "reasons" could be the culprit. Take a look at these articles for help, and we are happy to help talk with you about your individual barriers; it is not an easy "just do X, and Y will happen":
- Map to your Orgasm: Don't Cling to the Clit.
Search "Map to your orgasm" for more helpful articles.
- Anatomy of an Orgasm
- ASK: I can't reach orgasm, what can I do about it?
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