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my husband is too tyed to have sex with me but masterbates as soon as i go out

By Anonymous July 18, 2018 - 10:43am
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iv been with my husband for 10 years we love each other but we have quite a lot of problems that we have to sort out so its stressfull for both of us , we are 57 and i would like sex a lot more , but hes always tied but every morning before he goes to work he has to masterbate to porn and each afternoon when i leave for work he will waitch 2 hours of porn and masterbate, iv told him loas of times id love to watch the porn with him in the afternoons ans masterbate together , but hes embarrased and always does it when i leave? its driving me insane and i feel very hurt

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Hello Anon

Thank you for writing!

Your husband is watching hours of porn a day. I don't think embarrassment is the issue as much as he has substituted you, for it. If you join him, you're in the way.
Don't take a back seat to random people having sex on camera for his pleasure, when you're getting none of your own.
Porn addiction is a very real thing. Men who watch it several hours a day end up replacing it for a real woman and can even become impotent in real life, at times. Counselling may help you both.
Good luck to you-

July 18, 2018 - 12:40pm
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