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Living in drama, child games spouse looks at web sites then denies it all and uses my Gmail address and blames it all on me

By Anonymous July 5, 2019 - 2:51pm
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I've been in a relationship for 11years this may, I have supported both and bent over backwards to finances, food shelter, clothing, my car necessities and other items such as drugs, e did have a job till he got sick ,we have been a part for a 6mths I got back up on my feet my daughter has inspired me helped me threw a lot I aloud him to move back in with me I've been in a place where nobody really should be I came back and it seems like he's really changed he's not interested anyting it seems as he is being secretive he doesn't socialize with me have, intimate feelings, making out loves me unconditionally no affection I'm not sure really what I should do for the rest of my life with or without him my mind and others have said let him go if he loves you he will return, my heart is dieing and broken will he ever truly save our relationship and see what is lacking Please help me!!!!

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Hello, Anon! Thank you for posting.

Loving someone does always not mean they are the right person for you. If things did not work out before, they likely won't this time either as I think you are finding out. You deserve to be with someone who makes you happy. Life is too short to settle. Think long and hard about what you want and what will bring you joy.



July 5, 2019 - 6:08pm
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