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I cant orgasm

By May 26, 2018 - 10:00pm
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I am a 34 year old female with 2 kids
I have had approximately 9partners in my life However I have never had an orgasm.i have always faked them.
I have never really been a masterbator either..now what?

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Hello. Thank for posting.

You are not alone. We get a lot of questions like this. Unfortunately, There is no one-fits-all answer. For many women, masturbation does help, achieve orgasm. We have a lot of information on this subject on our site. Too many links to list individually! And too much information to put here. Below is the main link to threads, information, and tips on this topic. I think it will help. The below resource may also be helpful. I've recommended it to members before.

Can’t Orgasm? Here’s Help for Women -

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May 27, 2018 - 4:46am
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