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By Anonymous March 25, 2019 - 5:01pm
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Im a virgin and today. me and my bf were together he took of my tights i was wearing underwear pad and he took his pants off he had like underwear boxer on but his penis kept slising out of it im so so so so scared please help me im scared if anything got on me he never penetrated like we were basically making out making a little humping he said nothing came out no ejactualtion not even pre cum but i dont believe that i remember i never felt anything wet from his end and he even showed me his penis and underwear to assure me its dry i was wearing a tight underwear so i know mine didnt get out of place also i was wearing a pad as my period is already 12 days late then he was wanting to give me oral so he tried like touching my pubic area but i wasnt letting him i asked him if his hands were clean he said yes but they were sweaty from all the making out and stuff im a virgin after i wore my pants and gave him oral he got done some came on my hair i touched it then put hand sanitizer tied it up then after he went to shower i went to wash my hands after he showered he made me give him oral again and during giving him oral i always had my pants on and also he put his private thing all over my face and stuff i spit many times and then i ended up washing my face please please help is there risk i cant stop crying. My bf said im making myself go crazy for no reason. Just to make sure my underwear never came off just he pushed it to the side and touched it because he was tryna give me oral but i didnt let him and i think i swallowed some of his fluids from oral

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HERWriter Guide

Hello Anon

Thanks for your post! Did you have sex ed at school? If not, it's a good idea to study on your own so you know how sex and the human body works. You can read books on this or search our own site. This will eliminate a lot of stress than the unknown can cause.
A woman cannot get pregnant unless she has unprotected sex (naked) with ejaculation. She would also have to be ovulating or be within five days of ovulation. Sperm will not travel through a layer of clothing to impregnate. Oral sex cannot cause pregnancy.

I read your post carefully - a pregnancy cannot occur from anything you did.

Anon, you sound far too young and immature to be engaging in any kind of sexual activity. Take time off from this so you can have a fun relationship with your boyfriend without such panic and anxiety. If he cares for you, he will wait. If he pressures you, let him go. The stress is not worth it.


March 25, 2019 - 5:14pm
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Anonymous (reply to SusanC)

Hi thank you so much God bless you all for helping us girls so much. Sorry, I have another quick question when i got home i took a shower and shaved my pubic hair just in case since i saw my pad had discharge and my underwear was wet im thinking it’s obviously my wetness cause his was dry during the time we were dry humping with our underwears im already 12 days late for my period which is starting to worry me cause i never had sex no penetration ejacuulation inside me not even fingering i dont want to start stressing on this now

March 25, 2019 - 7:18pm
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello again
Your period is not delayed due to pregnancy, it is likely delayed due to hormonal changes in the body or stress - stress can change the menstrual cycle quite significantly.

March 26, 2019 - 7:34am
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Anonymous (reply to SusanC)

Hi sorry to disturb I just got my period so I dont need to worry about yesterday right?

March 26, 2019 - 6:55pm
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