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Hello everyone,
I'm really freaked out for my situation, it's been days since I can't sleep well for that. I really hope an expert can give me advice. Sorry if I tell this step-by-step but I really need help.
My girlfriend and I had dry sex (I had a tracksuit bottom and even put on a condom from the beginning, she had her panties on and we laid on each other). I went down on her many times and inserted my pinky finger in her vagina a little bit. She is still a virgin since we've never had penetration (it's not appealing to me) and I didn't want to make her bleed with my finger so I didn't go further.
Then, we did 69 with those clothes on (it may sound weird but since I prefer doing it clothed she caressed it above my tracksuit bottom and when she licked me she took my penis out with the condom on). Finally she told me if I wanted a bj without the condom so we sat by the side of the bed and I took the condom off. I made sure there was no more grinding once I had the condom off. I didn't cum from that, though. I usually cum when I estimulate myself.
After that, I told her to kiss me as I rubbed myself and finally cummed inside my tracksuit bottom (She was not on top of me, but aside, kissing me). She went to the bathroom to change clothes and I did the same after. There was NO penetration nor direct genital contact involved.
This all ocurred on August 21st and she usually gets her period on the 28th. However, it's September 7th and she still hasn't had her period, which really freaks me out!. If she delays, she only does a few days but it's been 10 days now. She hasn't taken a test yet, I told her to wait until the 10th for her period to come and if it doesn't, she takes a test. By this time I'm pretty convinced she is pregnant since it seems the most logical explanation. (I say to myself: what else could it be if we did it recently, dry as explained, but did).
What are the chances of she being pregnant from that? I read that is not possible, however, given my situation, what could happen? Perhaps when I touched the condom my finger got precum (although I was very careful) or perhaps I managed to get it somehow in my mouth after a kiss and I then licked her, or she got impregnated when she cleaned off (she never took my semen, however she surely touched a bit of precum in the end, during the bj). What are the chances of she being pregnant from all that? Do you know any case of pregnancy from that? What else could have ocurred? Please help me, I'm really stressed.
Ps: She has been having cramps, food cravings, and says: 'I feel is going to come', but it doesn't. We have started a new semester from university and she is as worried as me by this time, but I'm a bit skeptical it could the reason.
Give me advice please. I don't know what to do if she is pregnant.
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Hello, JoseSoto7777777. Thank you for posting.
Your friend can't get pregnant from the scenario you describe. I think you already know this. Certain things have to happen for pregnancy to occur, it's not magic. For all intents and purposes, there is a risk of pregnancy when a woman has unprotected sexual intercourse with ejaculation that enters the vagina. She would also have to be ovulating.
An occasional late or missed period can happen due to stress, illness, sudden weight loss or weight gain, a change in routine or body chemistry etc, which can impact a woman's cycle. I don't know your friend's age, but it's not uncommon for teenage girls to have some irregularity as their bodies are still maturing.
Helena
September 7, 2018 - 4:10pmThis Comment