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Can you get pregnant without the man ejaculating?

By July 21, 2009 - 12:51pm
 
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I'm very young and i have not ever had intercourse but my boyfriend rubbed his penis on my clit up and down but did not put it in my hole. He did not wear any protection and neither did he come and his penis was dry but is there any way that i can get pregnant?

PLEASE HELP ASAP!! :(

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Anonymous

Hi,
my boyfriend and I fooled around a bit and he was rubbing his penis near my vagina (I mean I could see the tip of his penis, it was leaned on my belly) and he never came. First day of my last period was September 18th. I'm stressing about the possibility of pregnancy from precum. Please reply, thanks.

September 30, 2011 - 3:41am
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Yes, sperm in his cum come in contact with your vagina. Sperm swims into the vagina. If you ovulated or released an egg from one of your ovaries, the sperm fertilized the egg. That is how conception happens. If you are late in getting your period (late by one week or more) you need to take a home pregnancy test.

Maryann

September 26, 2011 - 6:03pm
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Anonymous

well i was with a boy yesterday & we didn't have sex but he had his penis on my vagina by the hole & ejaculated, he didn't insert it but he was rubbing the cum on my vagina by the hole. Could i get pregnant :( , give me an answer asap please. I don't want to be asking for a pregnancy test, its very embarrassing. Reply asap x

September 24, 2011 - 3:43am
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It is possible. It only takes one sperm to fertilize an egg. There is sperm in precum. If she was ovulating, releasing an egg from an ovary, at the time, the chances of conception are good.

Maryann

September 21, 2011 - 5:04pm

a couple days ago i was messing around with my girlfriend but the tip of my penis slipped in her vagina for like a really quick second i noticed there was precum on it could she get pregnant

September 20, 2011 - 6:03pm
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Anonymous

Hi Anonymous,
I think it is highly unlikely that you are pregnant due to your experience. Usually, women do not ovulate (which causes pregnancy) until about day 14-20 after that start of their period. I think you should be safe.
Good luck,
Missie

September 18, 2011 - 11:39am
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Anonymous

me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex for about 40 seconds, the day that my period ended. then he pulled out and came. He didn't cum in my vagina. Could I get pregnant? Please answer ASAP ):

September 18, 2011 - 8:36am
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Hi Anonymous,
Try to relax, because stress can cause a delay in the start of your period. Wait and see if you get your period. If you are late by a week or so, take a home pregnancy test. It is very unlikely that this sexual interaction could lead to pregnancy, but sperm are so tiny and there is no way to know for certain if any could have still been on your boyfriend's penis when he pressed it against your vagina.
Though you say that you are still a virgin, it sounds like you are quickly progressing toward sexual intercourse. If you feel ready to take the next step, start using birth control to prevent an unwanted pregnancy and be aware of how sexually transmitted diseases are spread. Now is the time to protect yourself.
Maryann

September 7, 2011 - 5:40pm
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Anonymous

Hi, I have a question.
I'm a virgin but my boyfriend and I fooled around and he ejaculated on my hands and some on my legs and I'm pretty sure that none of it got on my vagina. We cleaned it all up with a tissue and after an hour or so he pressed his penis on my vagina for a few minutes but the top of it wasn't near the entrance of my vagina. He did not ejaculate at that point. Now I'm so stressed and waiting for my period which should come in about 15 days. I am aware of the risk though all of my friends say it's not possible to get pregnant this way. Do you think I could be pregnant?

September 7, 2011 - 4:58pm
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Anonymous

Hi Anonymous,
If you had your period, this is a GREAT sign of not being pregnant. Having an irregular period is not so uncommon and perhaps this happens more often but you are not fearing pregnancy and therefore, are not that concerned about your period. If you are still afraid that you may be, taking a pregnancy should settle your fears.

I hope this helps.
Missie

September 2, 2011 - 5:06pm
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