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can you get pregnant with clothes on?

By December 31, 2010 - 10:04pm
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I made out with my girlfriend and our bodies were touching. we both had clothes on and no penitration was made. we both were wearing jeans pants and underwear and she's a virgin, but i ejaculated in my pants while touching and it was wet and we kept touching with our clothes on and we were outside and it was a little cold . can she get pregnant?

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I am a 24 year old female and I am literally going insane.I want to crawl under a rock and die.A friend of mine, or who I thought was a friend of mine, was over my house and before I knew it was on top of me sticking his penis into my vagina while I had pajama pants on (I do believe he had pre-cum on his penis because my pants were wet).After I freaked out on him and told him to leave, I started to have a mental break down (I am a virgin and saving myself) and went out and bought next choice, since this was 4 or 5 days after my period.I know that I was going to start ovulating if I hadn't started already because I had a egg white discharge after I used the restroom when all this happened.I took plan b about 3 or 4 hours later and began to bleed about 3 or 4 days after that for about 5 days. (Side effect of the pill) After that I started to get very sore tender breasts and a lot of pressure and cramps in my lower abs and down near my bladder and uterus.I was freeeaking out and convinced that I was pregnant.(Maybe it was just a crazy PMS episode)I couldn't really eat and what I did eat was crap.I would only eat once and would be so bloated and full, I felt like I was going to pop!About a week and a half after all of this, I went to the E.R. because I could not handle the pain anymore.I had the feeling of urinating all the time and was doubled over.Needless to say they couldn't find anything(No bladder infection or UTI).So I lived with it for a couple of weeks to see if it would just go away.The E.R. doctor did tell me however it "could" be a side effect of the pill.
My period did come as usual on the day I expected it but just to be safe a couple of days after I finished my period( which was kind of weird, it lasted 4/5 days and completely just stopped with a weird looking burgandy blood.I usually have brown discharge after every period but that didn't happen.)I took a pregnancy test, it was negative.I had some weird cloudish jelly looking discharge one day and then felt ok.A few days later I took another test, negative.(First response)
I have been extremely tired,Im talking going to bed at 5am waking up at 4pm and I am very gassy.I am experiencing period like cramps but don't have my period for another 2-3 weeks.
About 3 or 4 days ago I started to feel tingling in my breasts.My nipples are erect more than normal and they feel hot and irritated and look like they've changed color but my over all breasts are not sore or tender to the touch. I am also feeling like a cold is coming on.I am freaking out tremendously because when I type my symptoms into google all leads to pregnancy or some crazy cancer.I told my OB what happened and she didn't seem that concerned of pregnancy(this was before the nipple symptoms).She didn't even give me a pregnancy test just a routine pap..?
I keep having panic attacks and feel nauseous every 5 seconds.
I am just sitting here, not able to function.The life sucked out of me because of this traumatizing event that occured last month.I am still wondering if I am pregnant.I am so emotional, I don't have any family near me (Out of state at the moment) and I am so scared and feel so alone.I need some advice.I feel so violated..
Could I be so freaked out that I am making myself feel that I have early symptoms of pregnancy?Thank you so much for all your help.

November 17, 2013 - 2:32am
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Dry humping with clothes on!! pregnant???
me and my boyfriend were dry humping and I was wearing shorts and underwear and he was wearing pants and boxers.I dont think he ejaculated and i've had my period since then (it has been 3 months)but i'm still afraid could i be pregnant?

November 13, 2013 - 1:30pm

My period stopped on day three. it usually takes 5-6 days. My bf kind of touched me a day before my period came but we had clothes on. can i get pregnant?

November 5, 2013 - 12:15am
Guide (reply to konurtes)

Hello konurtes,

No, you cannot become pregnant if your boyfriend touched you because you were wearing clothes.


November 5, 2013 - 5:45pm
EmpowHER Guest

But his underwear and mine was actually really wet . Please tell me , can i be pregnant ???? I am really tensed :(

April 13, 2013 - 11:33am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

You cannot become pregnant by engaging in dry sex with your underwear on. Still doubting? If your period is late beyond one week, take a home pregnancy test.


April 15, 2013 - 5:16pm
EmpowHER Guest

Thankyou for saying this . But are you sure ??? I knw you are well educated about all this but I am really getting tensed . I mean i have missed my period by 8 days . I am not pregnent ?? Right ??

April 13, 2013 - 7:35am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

If you still have doubt, take a home pregnancy test.


April 15, 2013 - 5:14pm

Hey Guys , I am 17 yrs old , my boyfriend is 18 . Both of us were engaging in dry sex with our underwears on . I have missed my periods by 7 days . Is there any chnce tht i could be pregnent . I am in a looot of stress . Please reply soon

April 12, 2013 - 7:38am
Guide (reply to Anonymouspooja)

Hi Anonymouspooja,

You cannot become pregnant by engaging in dry sex with your underwear on.
Stress is causing a delay in the start of your period. Relax and your period will come.


April 12, 2013 - 5:28pm
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