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Can my girlfriend get pregnant if she gave me a handjob? (with very thorough details)

By November 6, 2013 - 11:18pm
 
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Me(guy) and my girlfriend were very intimate one time and it came to point wherein we performed mutual masturbation to each other. However, we were both clothed on top although our jeans were pulled down and our underwear was also pulled down to pleasure each other easier. After awhile, I performed oral sex on her and after she had orgasmed she pulled up back her jeans and panty because she said that she had enough already at that time (so she was FULLY clothed after I gave her oral sex). After 5 mins, she then had the idea of giving me one last handjob while I wouldnt do any fingering on her already since she told me that she had enough and she was scared that there might be traces of sperm on my fingers. So, she was able to give me a handjob while both of us were sitting down next to each other(we were watching a movie in a house on a couch). She gave me the handjob using her right hand UNTIL i was able to climax and eventually ejaculate. Alot of semen came out, since I hadnt been masturbating for 2 days and because of this, the semen landed on my shirt and some on her jeans (she was fully clothed when i ejaculated) specifically on her thigh area and also on her lower part of her shirt. She also had a huge amount of semen on her hands but then we were able to wipe off all of the semen that hit us and our hands with tissue and then applied alcohol to our hands to sanitize ourselves. We even sprayed alcohol on our clothes just to be sure and sprayed all over our hands. IS THERE STILL A PREGNANCY RISK HERE IN THIS SITUATION? AND DOES ALCOHOL KILL SPERM AFTER HAVING WIPED IT WITH TISSUE?

Same thing happened, there was also a time where we watched a movie in my house and my girlfriend was fully clothed but then she was wearing LEGGINGS that day instead of jeans and she gave me a handjob while we were sitting down and the semen landed on her leggings and her sweater. We wiped off the semen that was visible and used alcohol again to supposedly kill the sperm. In this situation, is there a pregnancy risk here? Can sperm reach her vagina when she wore leggings??

**by the way, me and my girlfriend never had sex, and she is 100% virgin. the above situations were only her sexual experiences.

THIS IS A TWO PART QUESTION...

Thank you so much for your time in reading. I hope to hear an answer soon. Me and my girlfriend are a bit paranoid. I hope we will both be okay because we don't want anything like this to happen. THANK YOU!

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Anonymous

Hi vcnet15,

Welcome to EmpowHER and thanks for your question. If there was no intercourse, just oral and masturbation. Your girlfriend can not get pregnant this way. Semen outside the body, will dry up very quick and sperm would then die. Hope this was helpful?

Best,

Daisy

November 7, 2013 - 4:44am
(reply to Anonymous)

HI! Thanks for the answer. So does this also mean that semen containing sperm can not penetrate through fabric like jeans and leggings and by no way swim to reach her vagina? Thank you!

November 7, 2013 - 6:23am
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Anonymous (reply to vcnet15)

Hi vcnet15,

Sperm can not swim through any type of clothing.

Best

November 8, 2013 - 7:00am

Hi vcnet15,

Your gf cannot get pregnant in any of the situations you described because she had clothes on.
Sperms have to have -naked- penis-vagina interaction to cause pregnancy.
Intercourse must happen and you should ejaculate inside her in order to make her pregnant. Or ejaculate directly on her vagina when she has no clothes on, sperms could then swim inside, but still this has a lesser pregnancy possibility than ejaculating inside her.

Be relaxed, no pregnancy risk.
Humping with clothes on is a safe way to get sexually pleased. Enjoy :)
But use a condom if you are planning for actual sex and intercourse in order to avoid stress and unwanted pregnancy.

November 7, 2013 - 2:47am
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