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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
 
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.

thanks..

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Anonymous

Hi. This is quite embarrassing but a few days ago me and my boyfriend were getting intimate. He put his penis on my virgina (as in just at it, it didn't even go inside the flaps). However, he had pre-ejaculation. Is it possible for his sperms to travel inside like this and for me to get pregnant? I'm quite worried as it's my first time. Can anyone tell me what's the risk of me getting pregnant in this case? Thank you.

December 15, 2011 - 3:56am
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Anonymous

if the fully sperms( the ejaculation) do not get inside your vagina or on it from the out side u can't be pregnant at all trust that >>>this chance what they talking about is 1/ 10000000000000
and it can't be happen and u mast know there are a lot of complete inter courses don't lead to pregnancy but for safety after that he must a condom ....don't be afraid ...

December 14, 2011 - 3:52am
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Anonymous

thank
thank

December 14, 2011 - 3:12am
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Anonymous

thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

December 13, 2011 - 1:54am
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Anonymous

if ur on birth control ... no u cant get pregnant. ive done it before. an im not pregnant

December 12, 2011 - 10:56pm
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Anonymous

I'm pretty sure you should be educated about all this before you start getting into actions like this. I.E. How unexpected pregnancies happen. Shame.

December 8, 2011 - 9:14pm
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Anonymous

hii got relation with my gurl frnd but i did cum inside her pussy ....apres having sex she told mii she is having pussy pain and belly pain also apres 4 weeks she is not having proper mesuration also pissing 1 day only many times+a pussy pain ..does it mean she is pregnant

December 6, 2011 - 12:53am
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Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend had anal 2 weeks ago, he didn't ejaculate inside me, he let it go all on my back, a tiny bit dripped round to my vagina, I don't think it went inside tho because I put my hand in the wAy, I was wondering If I could be pregnant from this?

December 2, 2011 - 3:21am
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Dear Anonymous,

If his sperm did not go inside then you cannot get pregnant. If it did, however, go inside then there is a small probability of pregnancy. Please wait until your period should come and take a pregnancy test if late.

-Rosa

December 2, 2011 - 7:59am
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Anonymous

What are the chances of a false negative? I took my first test two weeks after the day. We didn't have sex but we fooled around. He didn't come inside me. But he did rub his tip against the outside of my vagina at the start. He came probably 20 minutes after outside. Anyways, I took a test two weeks later and got a negative. I took another one the morning after my first test and got a negative. It has been three weeks and some days and my period still hasn't come. I will take another test in the morning but what are the chances that these are just false negatives?

December 1, 2011 - 11:46pm
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