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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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i got my girlfriend the pregnancy test she did it and it turned out to be not pregnant, the next day she came on to her period thanks everyone xx
December 28, 2011 - 6:36amThis Comment
Not having some one to talk to can make you feel very alone. We are hear to listen and help, if we can.
Sometimes, depending on your culture or religious orientation, having intercourse before marriage is taboo and can leaving you feeling ashamed and guilty.
Sexual intercourse is not something that is dirty, but rather, a beautiful way to express your love for someone and a pleasurable experience.
However, if you and your girlfriend are young and raised in a strict cultural environment, this can be a real problem for you, especially if she is pregnant.
If your girlfriend has missed her period, she needs to take a home pregnancy test, one that is designed to early testing. You can find that information of the label.
Taking this one step at a time,
Maryann
December 26, 2011 - 6:47pmThis Comment
i have had sexual education lessons at school but they have all been on sti's nothing like this im uneducated and just generaly scared im going to get a clear blue make of pregnancy test today there the best in the uk whick is where i am, i cant thank this site enough for being there for free as well as i have no job just been sacked in cuts i am totaly skint and im only 16
December 27, 2011 - 6:14amThis Comment
thank you , i am nore scared of loosing her than if she is pregnant because i really feel like i have connected with her is there a very high chance she is pregnant ?
December 27, 2011 - 5:40amThis Comment
i fingered my girlfriend and she wanted me to put my penis in her vagina so i did i know i shouldnt of and i feel ashamed i need help i have no one to talk to and she has missed her period and she said she has period pains and felt sick on christmas morning help !!
December 26, 2011 - 4:44pmThis Comment
the break your 23 and your a virgin :L im 15 and i lost my virginity at 13 :L you must be whilelooking!
December 26, 2011 - 10:47amThis Comment
thanks
December 25, 2011 - 12:32pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
According to your explanation, I think it would be highly unlikely that your girlfriend will be pregnant although anytime you have unprotected sex, remember that you are risking the chance of pregnancy so always use a condom.
Hope this helps.
Missie
December 24, 2011 - 10:13amThis Comment
Hi. Well me and my gf were fooling around and she told me to put my penis in her without a condom. Now I did have precum but I didn't masterbate at all that day and before I put it in I wiped my precum off with a rag real good. Anyways I put it in really quickly and put it out. Can she be pregnant?
December 23, 2011 - 10:15pmThis Comment
thank you
December 22, 2011 - 6:21amThis Comment