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Can i get pregnant from this or am i just paranoid?

By Anonymous July 4, 2018 - 1:54pm
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Hello. Hope your okay empower ..i'm kinda paranoid in regards to this situation because i came across a video where the woman became pregnant without having vaginal sex.
Me and my husband are not planning on having kids anytime soon because we are newly wed + currently financially not stable. I love my husband so much so rather than going all the way we keep our sexual lives healthy by pleasuring each other in other ways -
Yesterday we just deep kissed and he rubbed his hand over my area (sort of like fingered me above my clothing) - so his bare hand did not even touch on my vaginal area..it was just his hand rubbing the top of my clothes. I do not know if he touched his penis at any point .. i don't think he ejaculated either but worse case scenario if he did touch his penis and then rubbed OVER my clothing (where i had jeans and underwear on and also a pad because i was on my period) can i possibly get pregnant? This sounds so silly but the video has just kinda freaked me out as i have never ever been sexually intimate with anyone and this is my first time.

Also, can oral sex make you pregnant if you swallow some cum by accident? I dont think that i did but if i did without realising it could this scenario make me pregnant?

Thankyou in advance x

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Hello Anon

Thank you for writing!
A married couple should be able to engage in full intercourse without fear of pregnancy. Why not consider condoms, the Pill, or non-hormonal birth control? You cannot get pregnant by what you described.

Oral sex cannot cause a pregnancy. Any sperm ingested goes into the stomach, not the vagina.

Anon, it doesn't sound you've had any kind of sex ed - please use our site to learn how the body works, or buy/rent some books on the topic.

You can also put Sex 101 into our search engine and start from there.

July 4, 2018 - 2:24pm
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