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By Anonymous January 17, 2019 - 7:51pm
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Me and my boyfriend were together making out or dry humping he was fully clothed and I had my track pants tights underwear and pad on no shirt and bra then later he backed off and sat far from me and did handjob then cleaned himself up and hands with tissues he opened windows for air then I wore my shirt and stuff again he was helping me after he wiped his hands with tissue they were dry he did touch my breasts or back just while he was helpng me wear my upper garments after all that he sanitized his hands and so did I just in case even though my hands made no contact with semen. Then soon I went home and washed my hands like twice with soap changed my shirt. I left on my track pants washed my face then drank some tea after all that I went to shower straight and while I was showering I put soap on my vaginal area rubbed it around my skin while I was showering. Also I just began to start my period today. And before I showered I saw wetness under my pad which is obviously probably mine because my track pants were fully dry no trace of any wetness so its mine. Is there any risk?

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Hi Anon!

Thanks for your post! Did you have sex ed at school? If not, it's a good idea to study on your own so you know how sex and the human body works. You can read books on this or search our own site. This will eliminate a lot of stress than the unknown can cause.

A woman cannot get pregnant unless she has unprotected sex (naked) with ejaculation. She would also have to be ovulating or be within five days of ovulation. Sperm will not travel through a layer of clothing to impregnate.

So a pregnancy cannot occur from what you did.

Your period today also confirms you are not pregnant.


January 18, 2019 - 5:08am
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Anonymous (reply to SusanC)

Hi this happened the day my period started like there was brown spotting discharge meaning it was starting so even if that wetness was his Im safe right because we both were wearing clothes I had on my underwear pad and track pants on and so did he sweatpants underwear. Please help im a virgin

January 18, 2019 - 2:55pm
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