Hello, Anon! Thank you for posting. I can say that stressing over this will not help. Even if the sex is not as often as you might like when you do have the time (and inclination), make it special any way you can. You can't help how the medication makes you feel, and if it's working well, your doctor might not want to risk changing it or lowering the dosage. However, I think your situation will improve if you stop drinking. It's not helping put you in the mood for sex, but rather the opposite effect.