Your post wasn't vulgar at all - you explained it well!
There is no real risk - your boyfriend would have to have live sperm (ejaculate) on his finger and insert it directly into your vagina to cause pregnancy but you would have to be ovulating at the time. This is not the same as through your underwear - even if it was wet, sperm would not be able to get through and up a vagina in that way. I understand your anxiety is telling you otherwise but it's not realistic. You also are presuming there was live sperm on his hand and you don't know this to be true.
In future, proper hand-washing can avoid these anxieties.
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Hello Anon
Thank you for writing.
Your post wasn't vulgar at all - you explained it well!
There is no real risk - your boyfriend would have to have live sperm (ejaculate) on his finger and insert it directly into your vagina to cause pregnancy but you would have to be ovulating at the time. This is not the same as through your underwear - even if it was wet, sperm would not be able to get through and up a vagina in that way. I understand your anxiety is telling you otherwise but it's not realistic. You also are presuming there was live sperm on his hand and you don't know this to be true.
In future, proper hand-washing can avoid these anxieties.
Best,
June 20, 2018 - 8:46amSusan
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