Your post made me cry. I'm living almost the same way now. Tho we are not married thank God but have a 2 year old son and have been together 5 years now. In the beginning all my alarms went off but I ignored them for some reason. I thought, he loves me he can't be that bad I must just be nervous, nope he is that bad but I'm aging such and hard time leaving him. I'll try to talk to him and bout how he's hurting me and he says he's not and I'm dramatic. If I bring up a time that he was wrong he'll tell me that I dwell on the past and he's moved forward (meaning he's ignoring his actions) or he'll casually make up and complete and utter lie and tell me that's how it went and that he'll go to his grave defending that lie. I have never been wit and no-one who's been able to make me feel so bad andnnyoneble bout myself but also during good moments make me feel so good about myself. It's driving me insane. I just want I'm to see just one thing he's doing that hurts me. Just one. But I guess in 5 years he's never done anything wrong. I try to explain how illogical that it as we are human and not perfect and make mistakes so for him to have never been wrong is ridiculous. But no I'm he one who's always either wrong or I'm he reason he did what he did so it's my fault he did it.
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Your post made me cry. I'm living almost the same way now. Tho we are not married thank God but have a 2 year old son and have been together 5 years now. In the beginning all my alarms went off but I ignored them for some reason. I thought, he loves me he can't be that bad I must just be nervous, nope he is that bad but I'm aging such and hard time leaving him. I'll try to talk to him and bout how he's hurting me and he says he's not and I'm dramatic. If I bring up a time that he was wrong he'll tell me that I dwell on the past and he's moved forward (meaning he's ignoring his actions) or he'll casually make up and complete and utter lie and tell me that's how it went and that he'll go to his grave defending that lie. I have never been wit and no-one who's been able to make me feel so bad andnnyoneble bout myself but also during good moments make me feel so good about myself. It's driving me insane. I just want I'm to see just one thing he's doing that hurts me. Just one. But I guess in 5 years he's never done anything wrong. I try to explain how illogical that it as we are human and not perfect and make mistakes so for him to have never been wrong is ridiculous. But no I'm he one who's always either wrong or I'm he reason he did what he did so it's my fault he did it.
October 14, 2017 - 10:13amThis Comment
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