I do understand! I feel that too and it especially ticks me off when my therapists expects it to be ALL on me because my ex has AS too... Yes, I not only was raised by one, I accidentally ended up being in a relationship with one. At any rate my therapist has this unspokent " woe is he" for the AS ex, and I'm sitting there thinking OMG is there anywhere any therpaist that is going to be there for ME!!! Geez!! It's like ( this way worse in my childhood) I'm like you were the therapists to the family, to him to even my therapists when she gets into " he can't help it, he has AS" and I'm sitting there in pain. I have found some CBT to work, and I'm getting out of the loop that was caused by my childhood. I totally relate to what your saying. I'm still struggling at my age in some areas. I cannot go back to a time, there isn't one!!! Living in the present moment has really helped me feel much happier and alive. When I do that, I don't have a script running. Thanks for sharing!
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I do understand! I feel that too and it especially ticks me off when my therapists expects it to be ALL on me because my ex has AS too... Yes, I not only was raised by one, I accidentally ended up being in a relationship with one. At any rate my therapist has this unspokent " woe is he" for the AS ex, and I'm sitting there thinking OMG is there anywhere any therpaist that is going to be there for ME!!! Geez!! It's like ( this way worse in my childhood) I'm like you were the therapists to the family, to him to even my therapists when she gets into " he can't help it, he has AS" and I'm sitting there in pain. I have found some CBT to work, and I'm getting out of the loop that was caused by my childhood. I totally relate to what your saying. I'm still struggling at my age in some areas. I cannot go back to a time, there isn't one!!! Living in the present moment has really helped me feel much happier and alive. When I do that, I don't have a script running. Thanks for sharing!
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