Hello sissygirl2,
I'm so sorry to hear about these challenges you're facing and I'd love to share some advice.
Doing the best thing for yourself in this situation is going to be very tough, because it may involve putting down some very hard ultimatums.
It seems that your man is not ready to be fully committed to one person. Sounds like he loves the thrill of dating and seeing many women at one time. If he still has that urge then he isn't ready to marry.
I'm sure you love him and that is the hardest part. You want him to be fully committed to you as you are to him. But doing the healthy thing for yourself may involve separating from him until he proves that he can commit to you in the way you need him to be.
I hope that you can choose what is truly healthy for yourself in this situation.
Faith
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Hello sissygirl2,
August 10, 2015 - 12:32amI'm so sorry to hear about these challenges you're facing and I'd love to share some advice.
Doing the best thing for yourself in this situation is going to be very tough, because it may involve putting down some very hard ultimatums.
It seems that your man is not ready to be fully committed to one person. Sounds like he loves the thrill of dating and seeing many women at one time. If he still has that urge then he isn't ready to marry.
I'm sure you love him and that is the hardest part. You want him to be fully committed to you as you are to him. But doing the healthy thing for yourself may involve separating from him until he proves that he can commit to you in the way you need him to be.
I hope that you can choose what is truly healthy for yourself in this situation.
Faith
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