this is written for healthy people...what about those with severe chronic diseases. Making plans is extremely hard since you never know if you will be well enough to attend, classes, meetings etc.
Just emailing at times my friends wears me out and yet i miss them so much and i love them and want to be there for them. I do not just want them here for me.
I have tried going to classes here where I moved, at a local church. The pastor was so controlling even though i was up front and said i have few diseases so i might miss some classes will that be okay. Her answer was yes...but she than would try and shame me if i did miss class. Tell me that if i believed correctly i would not even be sick...i am choosing to make myself sick on purpose ..i get something out of it.
Yes others in class got upset and eventually so many people drop out that her church disappeared.
But it left me even more nervous about trying new places to meet others.
Plus it seems we have cliques here...one is extremely liberal and other conservative and racist even. I am in the middle....every time i meet someone like me...they agree it is like this here and they move.
I like to move but i doubt i can afford it plus right now my husband did move back in and feel maybe i should stay and see where it leads...right now my feelings are i love him but as friend. He is very hard to live with and often brings me down or makes me sick...yet on other hand he can cheer me up..gets me and can be very understanding...know the right thing to say or help me to solve issues i want to work on. so i am confused.
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this is written for healthy people...what about those with severe chronic diseases. Making plans is extremely hard since you never know if you will be well enough to attend, classes, meetings etc.
Just emailing at times my friends wears me out and yet i miss them so much and i love them and want to be there for them. I do not just want them here for me.
I have tried going to classes here where I moved, at a local church. The pastor was so controlling even though i was up front and said i have few diseases so i might miss some classes will that be okay. Her answer was yes...but she than would try and shame me if i did miss class. Tell me that if i believed correctly i would not even be sick...i am choosing to make myself sick on purpose ..i get something out of it.
Yes others in class got upset and eventually so many people drop out that her church disappeared.
But it left me even more nervous about trying new places to meet others.
Plus it seems we have cliques here...one is extremely liberal and other conservative and racist even. I am in the middle....every time i meet someone like me...they agree it is like this here and they move.
I like to move but i doubt i can afford it plus right now my husband did move back in and feel maybe i should stay and see where it leads...right now my feelings are i love him but as friend. He is very hard to live with and often brings me down or makes me sick...yet on other hand he can cheer me up..gets me and can be very understanding...know the right thing to say or help me to solve issues i want to work on. so i am confused.
appreciate any advice
December 7, 2012 - 11:22amThis Comment
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