Here I am. Now married 11 years. My husband prefers to masturbate when I'm at work. I've had zero foreplay for 4 or 5 years. No 'making love' since I can remember. I'm so very lonely and depressed. He won't talk about it. Nights are the worst. I cry a lot. I'm seeing an MD, but it's not helping. Not sure what to do next. I do love him.