Hi,
It is apparent that your trust issues are negatively impacting your relationship with your fiance. That is something that you need to resolve. You need to learn how to trust again. You need to develop self-esteem and a strong self image. A psychologist or therapist can help you do this.
I am only hearing your side of the story and your fiance's responses by your words, not his. It would be beneficial to your relationship if the two of you can talk honestly and stop using sex as a bargaining chip. If you truly love each other, you can work this out. You may benefit from couple's counseling. A trained counselor will act as an impartial person.
Maryann
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Hi,
September 23, 2011 - 4:09pmIt is apparent that your trust issues are negatively impacting your relationship with your fiance. That is something that you need to resolve. You need to learn how to trust again. You need to develop self-esteem and a strong self image. A psychologist or therapist can help you do this.
I am only hearing your side of the story and your fiance's responses by your words, not his. It would be beneficial to your relationship if the two of you can talk honestly and stop using sex as a bargaining chip. If you truly love each other, you can work this out. You may benefit from couple's counseling. A trained counselor will act as an impartial person.
Maryann
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