I also figured out that if you are anticipating that it will hurt, than you are setting yourself up for less natural lube, you become hesitant and tense up.. then its 2 problems and it will hurt.. Just not good.
So I make a concerted effort to stretch things out a bit and it helps if you are confident in your partner to follow your lead.
Not a fix for all my issues, but a difference in perception helps. :)
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I also figured out that if you are anticipating that it will hurt, than you are setting yourself up for less natural lube, you become hesitant and tense up.. then its 2 problems and it will hurt.. Just not good.
July 7, 2011 - 3:23pmSo I make a concerted effort to stretch things out a bit and it helps if you are confident in your partner to follow your lead.
Not a fix for all my issues, but a difference in perception helps. :)
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