I've been there. I almost ended my life but I managed to get out in time. Getting out was so much easier than I thought and so much less painful than staying. The whole time I kept trying to change things, but it takes two. Think about if you were your daughter, what you would want her to do? What you advise yourself to do?
As badly as I wanted to change things, only 3% of abusers actually can and do change. I'm really sorry you are going through this, and you totally do NOT deserve it, you deserve way better whether it's with or without him. I've found so much happiness since, it's unimaginable. Please put your self-preservation foremost and remember you have a family that loves you very much.
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I've been there. I almost ended my life but I managed to get out in time. Getting out was so much easier than I thought and so much less painful than staying. The whole time I kept trying to change things, but it takes two. Think about if you were your daughter, what you would want her to do? What you advise yourself to do?
February 23, 2016 - 2:33pmAs badly as I wanted to change things, only 3% of abusers actually can and do change. I'm really sorry you are going through this, and you totally do NOT deserve it, you deserve way better whether it's with or without him. I've found so much happiness since, it's unimaginable. Please put your self-preservation foremost and remember you have a family that loves you very much.
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