My boyfriend is 47, I am 42, we have been together 7 months and live together. In the beginning we had sex every day, sometimes 2,3,4 times a day. The sex is the best ever for both of us, really spectacular. But the past month it has been once a week, and even then its like pulling teeth, I always have to initiate. I have tried talking to him, telling him how it makes me feel unloved and undesirable, and it ends up in a fight, with me in tears and him shutting down. Last night he said thats all I want from him. So not true! What healthy man with a naked woman in bed says no? It makes me wonder if he is cheating, especially because he used to be so into it too. I am ready to call it quits, I was in a sexless marriage for years and will not do it again. :(
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My boyfriend is 47, I am 42, we have been together 7 months and live together. In the beginning we had sex every day, sometimes 2,3,4 times a day. The sex is the best ever for both of us, really spectacular. But the past month it has been once a week, and even then its like pulling teeth, I always have to initiate. I have tried talking to him, telling him how it makes me feel unloved and undesirable, and it ends up in a fight, with me in tears and him shutting down. Last night he said thats all I want from him. So not true! What healthy man with a naked woman in bed says no? It makes me wonder if he is cheating, especially because he used to be so into it too. I am ready to call it quits, I was in a sexless marriage for years and will not do it again. :(
December 3, 2014 - 6:44amThis Comment
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