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Thanks for the quick response Susan! It has def helped me at least look at things differently. I am not against anyone pleasuring themselves.. But I do see it as something you do on your own personal time. Like porn for example, I know guys watch it.. But I don't want to open up our home computer to a stream of porn sites popped up.. If that makes any sense? I understand that it may be a way for him to relax now but I still don't know how to talk to him about it. The reason why it keeps me up its because it's not like he just wakes up and " handles his business" and then goes back to sleep... It last hours! And what catches my attention is that he actually is asleep, snoring and everything! He'll wake up, do it for a bit and then fall asleep and then all over again! I went to bed with an open mind last night and after I practically put on a show with fireworks for him I figured I could get a good nights sleep. That wasn't the case :/ he was doing it again so I figured .. I'm awake, I might as well help and possibly help both of us get a good sleep. He was in one of his sleep "pauses" when I made a move and I let him know I was awake.. If you get my drift. He opened his eyes, got closer to me.. And then turned over on his belly. And remained on his stomach asleep! Time passes and I was awaken to the familiar sounds again. Def did not see that one coming. :/