Hi Anonymus,
Maybe try bringing the fun back into it? My boyfriend and I have sort of the same problem but I know that when I talk to him about it in a more "let's try this together" attitude or let's just be really playful about it, he is always interested enough to give it a go. Maybe remove the focus from sex and more towards having fun and doing all the foreplay stuff and see where it goes from there? I know some guys feel pressured when women talk to them about sex because they feel insecure or like it is all there fault. I don't know if any of that helps but I wish you luck!!
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Hi Anonymus,
March 19, 2011 - 12:05pmMaybe try bringing the fun back into it? My boyfriend and I have sort of the same problem but I know that when I talk to him about it in a more "let's try this together" attitude or let's just be really playful about it, he is always interested enough to give it a go. Maybe remove the focus from sex and more towards having fun and doing all the foreplay stuff and see where it goes from there? I know some guys feel pressured when women talk to them about sex because they feel insecure or like it is all there fault. I don't know if any of that helps but I wish you luck!!
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