Kay you are only 15 years old. You need to stop and think about what you want as part of your relationship. It is never to late to stop being sexually active until you are ready. If you feel that you are old enough for sexually activity then you are old enough to be responsible too. I am the mother of 2 boys. One is 21 and the other is 16. I communicated a long time prior to their "serious relationships" with girls and asked them both to be very honest with me as their mother. My oldest chose to become sexually active and I provided him with condoms. As his mother I did not want him to become active so young (16 and 1/2) but I was relieved that he was honest with me. He is now 21 and living on his own. I believe that our honest relationship helped him make the decisions that were right for him. My youngest has chosen to wait until he is older. You need to do the same. Make a choice and then act responsibly. And remember it is o.k. to say no I am not ready for this.
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Kay you are only 15 years old. You need to stop and think about what you want as part of your relationship. It is never to late to stop being sexually active until you are ready. If you feel that you are old enough for sexually activity then you are old enough to be responsible too. I am the mother of 2 boys. One is 21 and the other is 16. I communicated a long time prior to their "serious relationships" with girls and asked them both to be very honest with me as their mother. My oldest chose to become sexually active and I provided him with condoms. As his mother I did not want him to become active so young (16 and 1/2) but I was relieved that he was honest with me. He is now 21 and living on his own. I believe that our honest relationship helped him make the decisions that were right for him. My youngest has chosen to wait until he is older. You need to do the same. Make a choice and then act responsibly. And remember it is o.k. to say no I am not ready for this.
February 27, 2011 - 5:05pmThis Comment
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